There is a hard law ... When an injury is done to us, we never recover until we forgive. How should you forgive, and why? I can't tell you. It's probably the hardest thing you'll ever attempt to do. But I can tell you what I've seen and experienced personally: once you are able to let go of wrongs that have been done to you, it changes everything. It will change your relationships, your attitudes, your emotional make-up - your whole approach to living. It will give you a better life. Plus, you'll find that when you forgive, you're always a winner. You don't lose a thing. Because it's not a sign of weakness to love somebody who hurts you. It's a sign of strength.
Hope for a great-sea-change
On the far side of revenge.
Believe that a further shore
Is reachable from here.
Believe in miracles
And cures and healing wells.
Sometimes, even when we recognize the need to forgive, we are tempted to claim that we cannot. It is simply too hard, too difficult - something for saints, maybe, but not the rest of us. We have been hurt just one time too many, we think, or misunderstood. Our side of the story has not been adequately heard. The strongest motivation for forgiveness is always the sense of having received forgiveness ourselves, or - if we do not have that - an awareness that, like everyone else in the human race, we are imperfect and have done things we need to be forgiven for. For me, the act of forgiveness carries a lot of power. It is an assertion of one's dignity to have the means and ability to forgive. .. It may be difficult to understand, because it turns conventional logic on its head, but idealistically speaking, I think that if there is to be peace, there has to be forgiveness ......
Truth without love kills, but love without truth lies.
Thursday, November 29, 2007
WHY FORGIVE?
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Tuesday, November 13, 2007
EXAM
Students are having their final examination now. After checking for the first paper, it seems that their performance (not all, but 80%) not meeting my expectation. But some of them really can do it well. They fully understood the concept of the system and know how to apply the knowledge they gained from me. For those who are doing well, we wish them all the best, and for those who are not doing so good, don't give up, you all are still young. Life long learning! Sure you all also can do it! Keep it up!
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Monday, October 22, 2007
HANOI TRIP





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Tuesday, October 9, 2007
SELAMAT HARI RAYA
One week before Raya, my students have already started their raya mood. Normal la, myself last time also had the same action. Really excited when the gema raya is just at the edge of the corner. The preparation and waiting mode or standby mode really enjoyable. Housekeeping and decorative works really delighten our life. Especially when the raya songs 'berkumandang' (is it a correct word?), really syok la!
Sama-sama we all celebrate this Raya. I sincerely wish you all Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri and maaf zahir dan batin. If tersalah cakap or dengan nada tinggi, ampun maaf diminta!
Hati-hati di jalanraya dan jangan main mercun. Nak main, main pop-pop mercun dah le!
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Wednesday, October 3, 2007
FASTING MONTH
During this month, everybody is tired, including me. Why? For those students who are fasting, of course they are tired, but how about me? Why?
When you are talking in front and didn't get any response from them, then you will feel tired. because this is one man show. You are the only one 'syok sendiri' in front there, where got fun one. The atmosphere is very dull. It makes me tired.
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Monday, September 17, 2007
CAMBODIA
2nd day visited the Angkor Wat. It was really amazing and unbelievable. The design, the carving, and the structure of the building made me feel powerless. The Cambodians have contributed so much for the heritage, but what is my contribution so far??? Nothing! The children were running around to promote their handicraft and drinks. They were trained to be a professional sales person. At this age, they should be at the school to gain more knowledge, and not at the road side busy with the earnings. This should be their parents' work. We met a 10 year old boy selling coconut drink alone. He was very lucky because we were there and a big group of Taiwanese tourist were buying from him. Because he is just a small boy and running the business alone, so everybody was pity about him and willing to wait for a long queue. In fact, there was another stall selling coconut juice just next to him, but nobody was buying from there.
Most of the product was sold at USD1 or the kids were just asking for USD1. But with just USD1, can we change their fate? I think it should be enough for them to buy food and other basic needs. But going to school, or I should say a guaranteed future, I think it's really beyond my capability.
We are very lucky including my children. We have computer, mp3, camera, TV, DVD, motorbike, mountain bike, car, beautiful house, handphone, and so many luxury stuffs. And the most important thing is we have opportunity to go to school and even university which can guarantee our future. So, we should appreciate on what we are having now! When you are eating at the food stall or kedai mamak, think about them who are chasing tourist just to get a USD. OK?
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Sunday, September 2, 2007
ACR 3933 TEST
- This is a lecture hall which can accommodate 112 pax.
- A LCD projector is installed at the height of 6.5ft from the ceiling level.
- The mechanical plant room is located behind the stage.
- Room temperature required 21 +-1 deg C.
- Propose a suitable air-conditioning system for the hall.
- Select the appropriate equipment installed in your design.
- Propose the ducting and piping system (if any) involved in your design.
Remarks:
- You need to submit manufacturer's catalogue for your selected equipment.
- You need to state clearly any assumption made in your design.
- You need to state clearly any accessories or components installed in your design.
Deadline for submission: 17/9/2007 before 9.00a.m.
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VICTAULIC VALVE & JOINT
Due to space constrain, sometimes we cannot perform welding work at site, especially for rettrofitting or replacement work. Photo shown here is the victaulic joint as the alternative for welding joint. With this method, we can shorten the installation time and work.
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Wednesday, August 29, 2007
CONVOCATION
Chase for your dream, no matter how difficult it is, just face it! Solve it! If you think you can, then you can. I can do it, you can do it too!
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